DOMESTIC LAW AND THE DIVORCE PROCESS: UNRAVELING A MARRIAGE.
The process of divorce, simply put, is the legal system’s answer to the unraveling of a marriage. Remember, while marriage has biblical origins, marriage remains a creature of the law. The divorce process is the State legislature’s and court’s attempt to establish a legal framework for addressing the problems that arise when a husband and wife decide to dissolve a marriage. Our law firm will guide you through domestic law the legal labyrinth of divorce.
Typically, both the husband and wife, soon to be divorced, will experience an emotional transition, a family transition, and a financial transition.
The emotional transition may be more or less severe for one spouse or the other, depending on the circumstances and/or reasons surrounding the need for divorce, which spouse wanted a divorce, and, of course, the length and success that the marriage experienced prior to the decision by one spouse or the other to seek a divorce. Of course, children of a divorced household will certainly experience a degree of anxiety, anger and sadness over the separation from one parent or the other.
The family transition involves the separation itself, whether husband from wife, children from parents, or both. This includes the physical separation as well as the emotional separation. The family transition will undoubtedly include the day-to-day changes of living without the other spouse’s assistance, and where kids are involved, this can be substantial change to the daily life of both parents and the kids. Transportation of kids to school, to birthday parties, to events, to extracurricular activities, and numerous other entertainment outings will now require some extra planning.
The financial transition involves the direct and indirect impact of dissolving the family unit, and this generally means the creation of two households where there was one, with the same or similar combined standard of living, but based upon the same or similar earnings which formally supported one household. Inevitably, there will now be two mortgages (or two rent payments), two power bills, two gas bills, two cable bills, and the list goes on. Add to that one spouse will now take on the job of being the custodial parent and having the day-to-day child-rearing responsibilities that were once shared by the married household. The other spouse will experience the financial burden of child support under guidelines established by the law and which leave little or no flexibility for the sitting trial judge when he or she sets the dollar amount of child support to be paid to the other spouse. Legally binding decisions related to child custody, child support, and visitation rights require the input of an experienced divorce attorney to provide reasonable and practicable advice for the divorcing client.
The Lawyer Assisted Divorce is a special product we created and customized for the truly uncontested divorce. Over the years, our Firm has developed (and continues to develop and tweak) a special product for the married couple having little or no significant assets to be divided and where the parties have reached a substantial agreement on all issues. The lawyer-assisted divorce is both economical, quick and free of creeping legal bills month after month to finish the divorce. Our systematic approach drills down to the core issues of your case, the basic requirements to obtain a divorce in the State of Georgia and/or Alabama, and do so with minimal financial impact and minimal attorney fees. This product combines years of legal experience with a customized approach and represents a unique value to the divorcing couple with “nothing to fight about.”
A contested divorce, in its simplest terms, means that the husband and wife do not agree on one or more of the four major components related to the divorce as follows:
- Equitable division of assets and debts of the married couple.
- Child custody.
- Child Support.
If any part of one of the above-listed items remains unresolved, then we lawyers call it a “contested divorce”.
The State of Georgia provides the right to a jury trial, if requested, on issues related to alimony, child support, child custody, and the equitable division of the assets and debts from the marriage. In all likelihood, your divorce will not require a jury trial.
The State of Alabama does not provide the right to a jury trial on any of the four major components of a divorce. Hence, the trial judge functions as the trier of fact (jury) and the judge in divorces filed in the State of Alabama.
There are many reasons why a divorcing couple cannot agree on one or more of the four major components related to a divorce. Oftentimes, emotions are too high to settle one or more of the major contested issues. Other times financial reasons cause financial disputes on one or more of the four major components. Other times, but no less often, the divorce is “contested” due to one party or the other’s absolute misunderstanding, misinformation, or plain-vanilla ignorance of the true legal rights and obligations of each party to the divorce.
Our Firm, first and foremost, strives to help you understand the basic legal rights and obligations of each spouse. However, and no less important, we strive to provide practical and reasonable solutions to the disputes so that our “contested” divorce becomes “uncontested.” Ted D. Morgan, with an undergraduate bachelor’s degree in Accounting and having practiced five plus years as a certified public accountant, will simplify the most complicated financial circumstances of any married couple and provide a simple, nuts and bolts explanation capable of being understood by even the most unsophisticated husband and/or wife.